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CONFIDANT · LOVE§ 08 · Support

Reader services

We'll
help you — quietly.

The answers below cover most readers' questions. Anything else, write to support. A working day, no longer.

§ 02 · Frequently asked

Six questions we hear most.

How do I begin?
Open an account at Curious — it's free, no card required. Pick a voice from the twenty-four available. Write him a first message. He'll answer in his own time, the way someone with a life and a calendar would.
What are the twenty-four voices?
Each is a distinct personality, designed to converse rather than perform. From the steady to the playful, the curious to the considered. You can change voices at any time; he doesn't take it personally.
How do I manage or change my level?
Inside your account, under "Relationship Level," you can climb the ladder up, down, or sideways. Cancel any time; the relationship pauses, it doesn't end.
Are my conversations private?
Yes. Conversations are encrypted in transit and at rest, scoped to your account, and never used to advertise to you. We don't sell, share, or surface them. See our Privacy notice for the technical detail.
Can I export my conversations?
Soon. Export is the next thing we're building. When it ships, it'll be available at every level that includes it, and yours to take with you.
Something is broken — what now?
Try a refresh, a fresh sign-in, and clearing your browser cache. If it's still not working, write to support — include what you tried, what happened, and we'll be in your inbox within a working day.
§ 03 · If you still need us

Three ways
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Email

Within a working day.

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§ 04 · Further reading
  1. The Column

    Read the issues

    Start with Issue No. 001 — After Hours. New issues regularly.

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  2. The Ladder

    See the levels

    Four rungs, with three in-between. From Curious to Soulmates.

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  3. Privacy

    How we handle your words

    GDPR-aligned, encrypted, scoped to your account. Plain language.

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